Help! My father is having an affair with a younger woman. I've heard rumors about it in the neighborhood but I just downplayed it cos I can really see at home that he really loves my mother. But I saw him one time in a coffee shop getting so sweet with this young good looking lady. I was not prepared on that reality that I just simply ran away. Should I tell my mom? Should I confront my dad?
Talk it over with your father. It is your right as the daughter to know the whole truth. Try asking him why he is cheating. Also, better - tell him to stop it.
Have you also considered try talking with the other woman? Maybe it is all her faults. I mean, maybe she seduced your father and your father, being just a human, was weak to resist the temptation.
Whatever. The point here is not on who did the first move. It was on the guy should not let temptation rule over him. He is the one who is married after all. He should have said NO from the very start. This is, if ever he was really seduced first.
Oh I'm sorry to hear your pain. I understand what you feel because my father also left us with another woman almost the same age as mine. Not that I am saying here that your father will eventually leave you and your mother. I don't know what to say. That reality really sucks way too much. You just have to be strong for your mother.
Well, talking to your father may not be a good idea. Why the heck would he admit? Of course he would deny it! I should know, because I have experienced this with my own dad. Anyway, go talk to your mom about what you saw. Then leave her to make her own conclusion. Your mom may be a lot stronger than you think.
My father is having an affair with a younger woman. I've heard rumors about it in the neighborhood but I just downplayed it cos I can really see at home that he really loves my mother. But I saw him one time in a coffee shop getting so sweet with this young good looking lady. I was not prepared on that reality that I just simply ran away. Should I tell my mom? Should I confront my dad?
do the right thing and tell your mom.
If you do not you would be party to the affair that your dad is having and be an unwitting accessory to his crime. if you don't stop the problem, then you are certainly a part of it!
Maybe he really does love your mom. But he is just like me. We want excitement and the wife just doesn't do it anymore. You could be open-minded. Just think that your dad is a man and all men cheat on the side. If you blow this up, your mom will end up getting hurt.
Maybe he really does love your mom. But he is just like me. We want excitement and the wife just doesn't do it anymore. You could be open-minded. Just think that your dad is a man and all men cheat on the side. If you blow this up, your mom will end up getting hurt.
If he really loves my mom then I don't think he would cheat. If you realy love a person you will always consider what that person will feel if you betray her trust. If he really loves us, he would never hook with that girl. What is he thinking when he is fucking that bitch?! A bitch that has the same age as mine.
I think you should start talking it over to your father. Let him know how you feel about his affair and how it is hurting you. Maybe he has also other issues within himself that's why he is having this affair.
You'll go crazy if you don't confront him. Don't be afraid, you didn't do anything wrong. He should be the one who needs to fear your wrath and your mom's. Your mom doesn't even have to know. Just let your dad know that you're on to him.
Ella, I noticed that in other posts, you're a very angry person. I know that your situation is not something that we can laugh about. But, hey. Your father is a cheater. You have to accept that. You can get angry with him, fight him, but you cannot get angry at the world. Don't take it out on us because we also have people who would be hating us if they find out we are cheating. In other words, mind your own business, girl.
Help! My father is having an affair with a younger woman. I've heard rumors about it in the neighborhood but I just downplayed it cos I can really see at home that he really loves my mother. But I saw him one time in a coffee shop getting so sweet with this young good looking lady. I was not prepared on that reality that I just simply ran away. Should I tell my mom? Should I confront my dad?
I doubt if he really "loves your mother" Ella. The thing is, if you really love somebody you won't be in an affair in the first place. I think that it is possible to have an affair and still stay married: don't let your significant other find out.
Your mother is getting lied to. And the fact that your father is taking his indiscretion public (at a coffee shop) is inviting for serious trouble.
