Since I broke it off with my ex-boyfriend whom I have been having an affair with, there's no one else on the side...well, except if you count cheese76. I have been chatting on the net lately and I met this guy, who, oddly enough, loves drinking coke with fresh milk on it. I do that! Is this fate? I don't know anyone else who does it.
I thought the breaking off an affair would mean that I'm ready to be a good girl for my husband. I guess not! Once a cheater, I fear, always a cheater.
That's why we're on this forum, honey. Because we're all cheaters and we may always be cheaters. But wait, you want what with your coke? You are a weird person! You and that cheese76 person. Be careful though. Because 76 may be his age. LOL.
Most people who settle with virtual chatting are horny people who just want to let loose their libido and be satisfied with "cyberring" alone. Yah i agree, this ain't cheating from your husband either.
Since I broke it off with my ex-boyfriend whom I have been having an affair with, there's no one else on the side...well, except if you count cheese76. I have been chatting on the net lately and I met this guy, who, oddly enough, loves drinking coke with fresh milk on it. I do that! Is this fate? I don't know anyone else who does it.
I thought the breaking off an affair would mean that I'm ready to be a good girl for my husband. I guess not! Once a cheater, I fear, always a cheater.
I believe that even cheaters themselves have the chance to have a normal clean life. Change is a choice, and if one chooses to change for the better (regardless of who she/he is in the past) then such change can be achieved.
I hate to say this, although Duncan was right that everybody deserve a second chance..but, for me, it is difficult to trust again to a person who had cheated on you and to your family...especially if that person is your dad.
Have you done "it" with cheese? Well, even if you did, through the Internet, I agree with most guys here. This is not cheating. It's just a form of entertainment.
StealthyVixen wrote:Since I broke it off with my ex-boyfriend whom I have been having an affair with, there's no one else on the side...well, except if you count cheese76. I have been chatting on the net lately and I met this guy, who, oddly enough, loves drinking coke with fresh milk on it. I do that! Is this fate? I don't know anyone else who does it.
I thought the breaking off an affair would mean that I'm ready to be a good girl for my husband. I guess not! Once a cheater, I fear, always a cheater.
Honey, if that is your definition of destiny... then you should drown yourself in the river. Seriously.
I think that you should be grown up enough to know that having the same quirkiness doesn't spell that you are bound to be together. It just means that you found somebody who is as crazy as you are.
Yes, once you've cheated, you will always cheat. Especially if you don't get caught!
Most people who settle with virtual chatting are horny people who just want to let loose their libido and be satisfied with "cyberring" alone. Yah i agree, this ain't cheating from your husband either.
Duncan, a recent survey showed that half of the women who engage in chatting soon find themselves in cyber affairs, emotional affairs that are done through the internet and a good 25% of those who get into emotional affairs get into physical ones, while all of those who get into emotional affairs CONSIDER making it physical.
I would like to think that this isn't the case. I would like for it to have my wife come to me and admit that it was all a mistake on her part. I really would.
But I guess it's true. Once you have done it, there is no stopping you from doing it again. Unless you get tied to the bed post in a locked bedroom, you will always find reasons to cheat.