Communication, that is. It is the key to ending an affair.
First off, affair is like a drug. It's addicting. But you get involved with it because it gives you a wonderful feel. You love it and you feel like you can't survive without it. But there comes a time in your life when you just want to break away from it. When you're ready to do it, go to rehab. For drugs, you get cut off from your life and be in a facility. Do the same with your affair. But the only thing to cut off is communication with your other significant other.
This may sound childish but break up through an e-mail, a text message, a phone call or a letter. Just break it off and never communicate again. Of course there will be some withdrawal. But when you get crazy, just think of your wife or husband. Devote your love and life to that partner of yours. If you feel like communicating to the other person, do something else. Sleep! Or whatever it is that will make you forget about him / her even for just a few moments.
This may be a forum supporting cheaters, but even in a cheater's life there comes a time when he or she is ready to let go of an affair or a relationship, only that it is already hard to stop. So break off he communication when the relationship is something you don't want to go on anymore.
All I know is that I am totally in love with my man. He is married, he is my boss. Yet, with this relationship we have, he can be totally true to what he is. He is also gay.
I just started, so obviously, I would not want to stop now. I'm enjoying it too much to ever intend to cut all communication. I love being in an affair!
One needs to go away in breaking up with someone. Going to a far away place can probably help a lot because if you are just living in one town, your world together is just so small. Some spots in town can also probably remind you of your beautiful moments together.
I haven't reached that point when I would want to cut off my current affair. But it's not really something I have a hard time doing. Cutting off is easy, really. It's the women who have difficulties.
Whatever the methods there are. The most important thing is to end the affair. For the sake of children and the love of yourself, do not mess around other people with families already.
If only that can be done. If only ending all forms of communication can be made right away. If two hearts have withstood all the odds that went on their way despite the forbidden relationship they have, can you say that it is not worth the fight?
Reading this thread -- I am actually thinking to cut my relationship with my man sooner. I am getting bored with the set-up. I don't know. Maybe I am just now in a mood swing.
Communication, that is. It is the key to ending an affair.
First off, affair is like a drug. It's addicting. But you get involved with it because it gives you a wonderful feel. You love it and you feel like you can't survive without it. But there comes a time in your life when you just want to break away from it. When you're ready to do it, go to rehab. For drugs, you get cut off from your life and be in a facility. Do the same with your affair. But the only thing to cut off is communication with your other significant other.
This may sound childish but break up through an e-mail, a text message, a phone call or a letter. Just break it off and never communicate again. Of course there will be some withdrawal. But when you get crazy, just think of your wife or husband. Devote your love and life to that partner of yours. If you feel like communicating to the other person, do something else. Sleep! Or whatever it is that will make you forget about him / her even for just a few moments.
I think the first question you should be asking is not HOW can you break if off, but IF YOU WANT TO BREAK IT OFF. I think it's easy to end affairs if you don't want it anymore.
I wholeheartedly agree. I think that one will always find excuses not to do something if they don't want to do it and WAYS to do it if they want to do it.
