I'm a housewife and so I bring my five-year-old to school and pick him up. Derrick is a houseband. So he too brings his five-year-old boy to and from school. It is no surprise that we developed a friendship. Our boys too. But then, I'm starting to feel something. I told my sister about it and asked her to take my kid to and from school while I try to bury my feelings. But then, he started calling me and saying he missed me and he realized that he looks forward to going to his son's school because of me. I went back to school. We have not done anything yet but it's so tempting. I'm falling for this guy and he's falling for me. But we respect our significant others' too much to try and cross the line between us. Help!
Well, if an affair with him is not something you want to do, start befriending his wife. Maybe she'd make a great friend, too.
And how will that help? If you don't want an affair, then simply avoid. No need to go to great lengths befriending the wife. Doing that will just give you more excuse, justification and confidence to see each other. Duh.
I'm a housewife and so I bring my five-year-old to school and pick him up. Derrick is a houseband. So he too brings his five-year-old boy to and from school. It is no surprise that we developed a friendship. Our boys too. But then, I'm starting to feel something. I told my sister about it and asked her to take my kid to and from school while I try to bury my feelings. But then, he started calling me and saying he missed me and he realized that he looks forward to going to his son's school because of me. I went back to school. We have not done anything yet but it's so tempting. I'm falling for this guy and he's falling for me. But we respect our significant others' too much to try and cross the line between us. Help!
It's good that you respect your man and he respects his woman. That is one good way for both of you to keep each other in check. If that respect is lost, or is non-existent, you'd both be lunging at each other's throats with your tongues by now.
Keep that in mind. Of course, I will not be one to hinder you from exploring a relationship with him, just make sure that it's what he wants as well. It's useless to want it with him when he is not willing to do it with you.
Well, if an affair with him is not something you want to do, start befriending his wife. Maybe she'd make a great friend, too.
No... this is one good way to hurt yourself. Imagine if you get invited to their house for dinner and you see how loving they are, you'd just get utterly jealous. And imagine once the girl talk starts... you'd have inside info at how he is in bed that could make you want him more...
And if you do decide to complicate things by having an affair with him, being friends with his wife is an added headache!
