I don't want to sound selfish, but I haven't met my boyfriend for almost a week now. His wife is sick. According to him, the doctor said that emotional stress has caused the wife to suffer hypertension and some anxiety attacks. It's weird that I have this thought - maybe the wife just wanted more attention from her husband, that's why she purposively let herself get into this so-called sickness.
I am not really like this. I am not a bad person who wish ill to his fellow; however, I just have that kind of gut feeling. Maybe love really drives me insane, to the point of this bad thoughts. I really don't know. Help me to be kind again.
This is expected, of course. The wife is his priority and not the mistress. If the wife gets sick, the husband is the first one who will comfort her right away and help her get through with the sickness. If something bad will happen to the wife and the husband wasn't there at that time, the guilt will kill him forever.
Sizzles can probably be right. Wives have this so-called attention seeking practice wherein they want to get the attention of their husbands in unknown reasons...on the idea that there is really no need to exert efforts in getting the attention of your husband because they are the wives. But in this case of Sizzles, the wife still doesn't know that her husband is gay. Am I right?
Sizzles, you don't want to sound selfish, but you really do sound selfish. If you get sick (and I mean ACTUALLY sick) would you want some person saying you're just playing sick to get attention? Wouldn't it be bad enough to feel shitty and not well? Do you have to accuse the wife of "purposely" allowing herself to be sick? I hate to say this, but you need to get a life outside of your BF.
I don't want to sound selfish, but I haven't met my boyfriend for almost a week now. His wife is sick. According to him, the doctor said that emotional stress has caused the wife to suffer hypertension and some anxiety attacks. It's weird that I have this thought - maybe the wife just wanted more attention from her husband, that's why she purposively let herself get into this so-called sickness.
I am not really like this. I am not a bad person who wish ill to his fellow; however, I just have that kind of gut feeling. Maybe love really drives me insane, to the point of this bad thoughts. I really don't know. Help me to be kind again.
Well, if she is and the husband believes her, you can do nothing about it. Remember that one of the things you should ready yourself with is the fact that your bf would not always be available for you. That's just plain stupid to think that he'd leave his "sick" wife to have a night with you.
