I have this officemate who is married already, yet it seems that he likes me. He is a descent guy and you would never really think that he will cheat on his wife. As a matter of fact, almost all our casual talks deal mostly how he loves his kids and how he values his family. But lately, I have been feeling differently. There's this kind of stare he is giving me now...long meaningful stares. And the way he smiles at me is kind of cute. Maybe I am just way too assuming now. But I am actually scared of how this thing might go on during the succeeding days.
It's in your hands, girl...I think. You could either stop being friendly with him or make the first move. It's the only way to know. But I suggest you stop before it becomes complicated. Unless you want complicated.
Try to test the waters first with all subtleness. Maybe he is just playing or maybe he is indeed serious. All I want to say is just be careful in dealing with situations such as this.
He is flirting with you. There's no harm in flirting back. Explore, play, strut, smile back and stare back as well. But just be careful along the way, as said by Duncan.
He is flirting with you. There's no harm in flirting back. Explore, play, strut, smile back and stare back as well. But just be careful along the way, as said by Duncan.
The point here is that he is married. I've never experienced getting involved with a married guy or just by simply flirting. I guess our proximity at the office and how our jobs link together are conspiring to have this certain closeness already.
I am starting to like this thread. Your happy disposition guys are way too contagious. Okey, I will take your advice. I will just enjoy the moment and ---- I will just problem the problem when the problem is already there.
I think we share this thing we called "mutual understanding." We haven't gone to that stage of kissing and hugging although at the back of my mind I am imagining such scenarios between the two of us. But I am very cautious and I can sense that he also behaves the same because our office is just small and any suspicious move will spark flames of gossips. Anyway, it is just a nice thing that you will report to the office with a big smile, and not a single hour is in a drag.
I have this officemate who is married already, yet it seems that he likes me. He is a descent guy and you would never really think that he will cheat on his wife. As a matter of fact, almost all our casual talks deal mostly how he loves his kids and how he values his family. But lately, I have been feeling differently. There's this kind of stare he is giving me now...long meaningful stares. And the way he smiles at me is kind of cute. Maybe I am just way too assuming now. But I am actually scared of how this thing might go on during the succeeding days.
Are you sure that the "different" kind of stare is really what it is or are you just giving meaning to everything he's doing just because you'd like for it to happen?
If you are scared and you don't want to end up having an affair with him, then go and avoid this guy. But part of me thinks you want something else to happen that is why you're not avoiding.
