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He said he wants to marry but...
 
 



My married boyfriend mentioned last night that he wants to marry me, but he just cannot because he is married. Of course, I know that. I also did not expect that we will marry each other because of the situation. I know where I stand and I know his priorities. So why is he telling me this?

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Because he is scared that you will find someone else. He just wants to keep you and it is up to you if you want to remain in that kind of relationship with him or find someone else who is single.

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Did he say this after you guys had sex?

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To give you false hopes.

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If ever...do you want to marry a guy who chose to leave his family just to marry you?

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Wow. The answers here make me more confused about my situation right now with my boyfriend. Nah, maybe I just put a lot of meaning to the "marry me question." Maybe it was just nothing, a spur of the moment.

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Lol! Don't bite it, as simple as that.

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Zasha wrote:
Wow. The answers here make me more confused about my situation right now with my boyfriend. Nah, maybe I just put a lot of meaning to the "marry me question." Maybe it was just nothing, a spur of the moment.

Wait, did he actually ask you to marry him? Or did he just say he wants to marry you but he can't? I'm confused with your posts. Or maybe you let it go into your head you don't know the difference anymore?

 



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Don't let it go into your head. By now you should know that men are such sweet-talkers.

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AmMael_YaF wrote:

Don't let it go into your head. By now you should know that men are such sweet-talkers.



I'd tell you the same thing, too. Don't hold your breath waiting for him to marry you.

 



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Zasha wrote:


My married boyfriend mentioned last night that he wants to marry me, but he just cannot because he is married. Of course, I know that. I also did not expect that we will marry each other because of the situation. I know where I stand and I know his priorities. So why is he telling me this?




Zasha honey, if you want to fall for that line, tant pis por toi!  You should know by now that if your boyfriend wants to marry you, then he wouldn't tell you all about it.  He will have divorced his wife and then married you before you even got the chance to think about it.

It's just his way of shi**ing you into thinking that something more would come out of your relationship.  Sweet and romantic, yes, but it's bulls%t just the same.  Don't fall for it.

 

 



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Thanks guys for all the advices. Yes, I now retreat to the idea that wedding bliss is a no-no in this relationship. Impossible!

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